Shot Out Of The Saddle

What does the “Point Man” in an infantry combat patrol have in common with a school superintendent in a small school system? Answer: “Both know they may lose their “job” at any moment.” I spent a little over ten years as a school superintendent in small school systems in Missouri. My job was on the line on a daily basis because practically every time I made a decision I also made an enemy, and as one of fellow superintendents told me when I first became a superintendent; “Friends come and go; enemies accumulate.

My first job as a school superintendent was in a rural school in a hamlet so isolated that as some folks said, “It wasn’t situated on a road between anything and anything else. You had to want to go there to get there.” All the students who didn’t drive their cars were bused in from the surrounding hills and hollers of the Ozarks. I came to the job fresh from a typically liberal College of Education so I was filled with liberal zeal to fundamentally transform the world around me. But as one of the traveling salesmen said in the opening song of “The Music Man,” I “didn’t know the territory.” I had never taught in a small rural school and had never lived in a backwoods setting. I was as out-of-place as Dorothy when she found herself in “The Land of Oz.” Unlike Dorothy, however, I didn’t realize just how different things were in my new home and job and I didn’t come across three helpful friends.

To make matters worse I hadn’t taken the sequence of courses that would have prepared me be a superintendent. My career goal was to be a Curriculum Director in some fairly good-sized school district so most of my studies were in that field rather than in school administration. But personal circumstances forced me to take what I could get at that point in time. So I plunged into the white-capped and turbulent waters that surround school superintendents, determined to do the job.

The first year was pretty much a “honeymoon.” I kept a low profile and frequently called the superintendent in a nearby school district to ask his advice. I made a few bad decisions such as not “excusing” the absence of the high school boys who had skipped school to go hunting on the opening day of deer hunting season. I heard some grumbling from a few students and their parents but I pointed out to them that “getting an education is more important than getting a deer” and thought that settled the matter. I didn’t know it at the time but all it did was teach them to keep their grumbling to themselves, their neighbors and –more significantly- the School Board. Whatever they thought about it the School Board didn’t chastise me and when March came they renewed my contract for another year. I began to sort of even like being a superintendent.

Year two began with me feeling more confidence in myself. I wasn’t hearing much criticism from parents and the old-time teachers who had been there “forever.” I took that as a sign that the ship was on course and making good progress. Now that I was no longer a rookie I began to flex my muscles to “transform” this little school. Although I was, and am, a practicing Christian; at the time my liberal training had filled me with the belief that the “wall” that existed between church and state should be maintained.

All schools have a teachers’ workroom that has a copy machine, paper cutter and other such tools. From the first day I arrived I had noticed that in the elementary school’s workroom a large portrait of Christ hung above the copy machine, but although I “knew” it was “wrong” to have a religious icon prominently displayed in a school I had held my tongue throughout the first year. The week before school started for my second year I told the grade school secretary to take that painting down. When the teachers returned they noticed it was gone. They asked the secretary about it and she told them truthfully, “Dr. Carriker told me to take it down. That it didn’t belong in a school building.” A few days later a delegation of veteran grade school teachers came to my office to protest what I’d done. I explained to them that it was “against the law” and that I didn’t want the ACLU to sue the school district. They accepted my explanation and went away. Word of what I’d done was soon common knowledge among parents but again the school board didn’t reprimand me.

Later that year while walking through the elementary school building I saw several posters advertising a “Revival” at the local Baptist Church. I immediately went into the grade school office and told the secretary to tell whoever put those posters up to take them down. I pointed out that if we allowed a church to advertise its meetings in the school building and if there were a local Ku Klux Klan that wanted to have a cross burning on top of a nearby hill who wanted to advertise their meeting in the school building then, because “I couldn’t discriminate” I would have to allow them to do so. My logic and knowledge of relevant law was as impeccable as my understanding of what was being said in the community was naïve. But the posters came down and there was no delegation in my office. This time, though, I did have to explain myself at the next meeting of the School Board. They seemed to accept my logic and legal knowledge. Unfortunately, among the encyclopedia of things I “didn’t know about territory” was that the President of the School Board, whom I will call “Merle,” was a lay Baptist preacher.

Soon “Merle” began showing up at the school complex several times a week at different times of the day going into and out of the buildings. Since my office was on the same grounds as the school buildings I assumed he would drop in on me at some time. I was wrong. He would come, visit for a while and leave without saying anything to me. This went on for a few weeks until one day I left my office, intercepted him and asked if he would please come to my office for a talk. When he came in I shut the door to my office and asked him basically, “What’s up with all these visits?” He said he was checking up, he’d been “hearing some things.” When I asked him what he’d been hearing he just said, “Oh, things.” His visits continued for another few weeks. Obviously I was beginning to feel crosshairs centered on the back of my head. Although the Board had already renewed my contract for a third year the writing on the wall was becoming clear. My days as their superintendent were numbered. If I held the Board to their contract and stayed for a third year it would be a miserable year. After thinking things over for several days I wrote a “Letter of Resignation,” got on the phone and asked “Merle” if he would kindly meet me for lunch at a place near where he worked. He reluctantly agreed.

After eating a bit of lunch I pulled my “death-knell” letter out of my coat pocket and told “Merle” what it was. I told him that I would give it to him then and there provided he would “call his dogs off.” He bristled at my describing what he’d been doing as similar to a pack of dogs chasing a fox but after venting his anger a bit he agreed to quit “hounding” me provided that I would call a meeting with him, myself and a delegation of teachers to announce to all of them that I had tendered my resignation. I took that as his asking for me to humiliate myself in public, yet it seemed to be the best option I had. That meeting was held the following day and for the remaining few months of that school year I was the lamest of lame ducks. The following weeks passed uneventfully. I mailed resume’s to several school districts who had probably fired their superintendent and were now looking for someone else and after a few weeks was chosen to “lead” a different school system. I discovered after a few more years as a superintendent that in the smaller school districts of Missouri becoming a superintendent was like joining in a game of “Musical Chairs.”

I also discovered that there are two kinds of “leaders.” There are visionaries who see ideals to be pursued, who then get in front and try to inspire and lead. They tend to be “shot out of the saddle” with monotonous regularity. Then there are those who carefully find out where the people they are supposed to lead want to go and then “run around and get it front of them,” but always checking to see if he is leading them where they want to go.” Those are the ones who grow old gracefully and retire after dozens of years in the same office.

No Firings, No Layoffs; Just Choices
Blame It on Irving
 

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Golden V. Adams Jr. (website) on Sunday, 09 October 2011 18:17

WOW! Having taught in a small Wyoming school district my first year with our superintedent having his office across the street in the elementary school next to the school cafeteria, I now have a greater appreciation of him. He probably met with the school board three times a week, and almost never seemed to make a decision on his own. When asked the "time of day", he would draw a picture of a clock! Reading your story helped me to understand why he had served as superintendent as long as he had. He was a leader who found out where those to be led need to "head" and then ran around to get in front of them. GREAT story!

WOW! Having taught in a small Wyoming school district my first year with our superintedent having his office across the street in the elementary school next to the school cafeteria, I now have a greater appreciation of him. He probably met with the school board three times a week, and almost never seemed to make a decision on his own. When asked the "time of day", he would draw a picture of a clock! Reading your story helped me to understand why he had served as superintendent as long as he had. He was a leader who found out where those to be led need to "head" and then ran around to get in front of them. GREAT story!
Golden V. Adams Jr. on Sunday, 09 October 2011 18:19

Three kinds of "leaders". Those who make things happen,those who watch things happen, and those who wonder what happened.

Three kinds of "leaders". Those who make things happen,those who watch things happen, and those who wonder what happened.
Tom Cormier (website) on Sunday, 09 October 2011 22:27

There are so many lessons in this story it is amazing. Sadly, there is no easy solution to the separation of church and state as you experienced right there. Today, if you were a Mormon there is bound to be someone who would protest that the Christ picture hanging was not the real Jesus, but a Mormon version. It's just too complicated and subjective.

That's besides the issue of leadership which you've described perfectly and with great insight. Kudos.

There are so many lessons in this story it is amazing. Sadly, there is no easy solution to the separation of church and state as you experienced right there. Today, if you were a Mormon there is bound to be someone who would protest that the Christ picture hanging was not the real Jesus, but a Mormon version. It's just too complicated and subjective. That's besides the issue of leadership which you've described perfectly and with great insight. Kudos.
Millard Don Carriker on Monday, 10 October 2011 03:13

Yeah, I didn't want to get into the issue but there was a palpable feeling of prejudice towards me as a consequence of my faith. I'm a Catholic - the nearest Catholic Church from that school system. was 45 miles away over county roads. Baptist and Methodist were predominant.

Yeah, I didn't want to get into the issue but there was a palpable feeling of prejudice towards me as a consequence of my faith. I'm a Catholic - the nearest Catholic Church from that school system. was 45 miles away over county roads. Baptist and Methodist were predominant.
Tom Cormier (website) on Sunday, 09 October 2011 22:30

Don,

I noticed a different font than the system editor provides in your post. Please test to see if you can see this post in Internet Explorer. If text is pasted from a Word doc rather than typed directly into the editor it doesn't consistently appear with IE. It does in all other browsers such as Firefox, Chrome, Safari, etc. It's a Microsoft thing. Maybe it does in this case. Let's hope. Just FYI

Don, I noticed a different font than the system editor provides in your post. Please test to see if you can see this post in Internet Explorer. If text is pasted from a Word doc rather than typed directly into the editor it doesn't consistently appear with IE. It does in all other browsers such as Firefox, Chrome, Safari, etc. It's a Microsoft thing. Maybe it does in this case. Let's hope. Just FYI
Millard Don Carriker (website) on Monday, 10 October 2011 03:11

I'll watch that in the future. Actually I didn't purposely pick a different font. If I can't read it in IE then I'll edit the story. Thanks for letting me know.

I'll watch that in the future. Actually I didn't purposely pick a different font. If I can't read it in IE then I'll edit the story. Thanks for letting me know.
Susan Darbro (website) on Monday, 10 October 2011 18:25

Yours was a most interesting story - although if we had all been taught the whole truth behind Jefferson's "wall of separation" statement, you (amongst thousands of other people then and now) wouldn't have had a problem. I have seen a similar phenomenon in the field of nursing - Directors of Nursing ("DONs," we call them) change positions all the time. Last I heard, the average tenure of DONs in the nursing home field was only six months! So...I'd say you did very well!

Yours was a most interesting story - although if we had all been taught the whole truth behind Jefferson's "wall of separation" statement, you (amongst thousands of other people then and now) wouldn't have had a problem. I have seen a similar phenomenon in the field of nursing - Directors of Nursing ("DONs," we call them) change positions all the time. Last I heard, the average tenure of DONs in the nursing home field was only six months! So...I'd say you did very well!
JUSTIN ERIK CORMIER (website) on Wednesday, 16 November 2011 15:06

The old heads just don't like change. They fear it for sure. Progress cannot happen until one opens one's eyes and is willing to accept what they see. There is something to be said about knowing when to hold or fold 'em. Your heart and intentions were in the right place and nobody can take that away from you. Sleep well my friend.
JC

The old heads just don't like change. They fear it for sure. Progress cannot happen until one opens one's eyes and is willing to accept what they see. There is something to be said about knowing when to hold or fold 'em. Your heart and intentions were in the right place and nobody can take that away from you. Sleep well my friend. JC
Millard Don Carriker (website) on Wednesday, 16 November 2011 16:33

In all humility (and true humility means validly knowing yourself), I was not as astute (smart???)a leader as I should have been. In hindsight I see that my desired changes would've had a better chance of being implemented had I used more "honey" and less "vinegar." My Mother had a saying that applied, "It's the steady drop that wears the rock." But that's hindsight - always 20-20. It's always well to remember that you have to have done what you did and be what you were to be where and who you are now. I had a wild, tempestuous career, but . . . that's who and what I was/am. Ironically, I did see some of the changes I wanted to make happen AFTER I was "relieved" of my duty.

In all humility (and true humility means validly knowing yourself), I was not as astute (smart???)a leader as I should have been. In hindsight I see that my desired changes would've had a better chance of being implemented had I used more "honey" and less "vinegar." My Mother had a saying that applied, "It's the steady drop that wears the rock." But that's hindsight - always 20-20. It's always well to remember that you have to have done what you did and be what you were to be where and who you are now. I had a wild, tempestuous career, but . . . that's who and what I was/am. Ironically, I did see some of the changes I wanted to make happen AFTER I was "relieved" of my duty.