My Mother and The Capper's Weekly

My last living sibling, an older brother, died last June. He was a history buff and an avid reader who preferred to own books rather than get them from the library. After his death I inherited quite a few books from his library. A few days ago I picked up one of them and found tucked inside a letter our Mother had written to him. The book, entitled “Too Good to Keep” was a collection of short articles, poems and letters that had been written in a publication called “Cappers Weekly.” This was a homespun weekly newspaper that was first published on July 10, 1879, as a weekly edition of the Topeka Daily Capital. During the next 35 years it changed its name almost as often as a Kansas weather forecaster changes his mind until on September 6, 1913, it settled on “CAPPER’S WEEKLY.”

Mother was a devoted subscriber during the `40’s and `50’s and when they printed a collection that might today be called “The Best of Capper’s Weekly” she immediately bought it. A few years later they printed a second collection which Mother also bought. She soon sent this second collection to my brother with the following letter - written exactly as she wrote it with the exception of a couple of parenthetical insertions for clarification:

“Gene here is the book I sent for. I don’t like it as good as the other one. Some of the letters are true for I have done some of the things in AR and OK. You can keep this book or give it to some old-timer to read.

Carrikers homesteaded in Western OK in 1905. My folks homesteaded in 1898 in AR. I was borned on the place and then they left when I was very small. Down east to Clinton AR about ten miles farther from where I was borned.

Carrikers burned cow chips (for heating and cooking). We never did. We always lived in the timber where we had lots of wood. Carrikers lived in Northwest OK for years without a heating stove they used their cook stove for heat. They had 7 kids while they lived there. 40 miles was the closest doctor at Woodward. (There was a) Country store 9 miles.

A neighbor woman of there’s was coming to Carrikers to visit and she got rattlesnake bit and died in there house. She died a few days after she got bit. Daddy said she sure suffered a lot. She was bare footed and it bit her on the toe. I wish Grandpa Carriker had talked more about things like that. She (Grandma Carriker) did talk about them. Guess Daddy had a harder time growing up than maybe I did. Carrikers had two chairs for 7 people. By (Goodbye) Mother.”

Sometime later my Beavers grandparents moved their family to a backwoods area in SW Arkansas where Grandpa eked out an existence for them raising cotton, cantaloupes, watermelon and other vegetables.  Their closest store was in a little hamlet called "Figure 5," which today is a pleasant suburb of Van Buren AR.  Mother attended grade school up until about the 6th grade in a one-room country school house near a little waterfall called "Dripping Springs."  At that time in AR a person who graduated from 8th grade could then "turn around" and teach grades 1 through 8.  One of Mother's teachers had done that, which led to an interesting argument between Mother and that teacher.  While reading out loud Mother pronounced the word "island" as it should be pronounced.  Her teacher corrected Mother, telling her that the word should be pronounced "IS land," pronouncing the first syllable as "is."  Mother, a staunch person with Scotch-Irish roots, was never one to back down when she believed she was right.  She challenged the teacher and the matter stayed unresolved until the County Superintendent made an official visit.  Mother, who also remembered "slights" more than she probably should have, brought the incident to the superintendent's attention and the matter was settled in Mother's favor.

 

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Around 1947, when I was somewhere between 10 and 13, I went with my parents and maternal grandmother when they took a vacation to visit their respective one-time homes in Arkansas. Both Scotland, the town where my Mother was born, and Carrolton, where my Dad came of age, no longer exist. They found crumbling foundations and a few landmarks. The photo below shows Dad, Mother, Grandma Beavers and myself at one of those landmarks called "Dripping Springs." 

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Dennis Stack (website) on Tuesday, 18 October 2011 04:27

Don, I just love your stories. The part where you transcribed your mother's letter left in the pages of an old book was a slice of real Americana. This truely is the kind of stories I have been hoping we can collect on a massive scale. Too often today our kids have no real sense of from whence they came and even less appreciation for the struggles and strife to get what they take for granted. Thanks for this!

Don, I just love your stories. The part where you transcribed your mother's letter left in the pages of an old book was a slice of real Americana. This truely is the kind of stories I have been hoping we can collect on a massive scale. Too often today our kids have no real sense of from whence they came and even less appreciation for the struggles and strife to get what they take for granted. Thanks for this!
Millard Don Carriker (website) on Tuesday, 18 October 2011 19:03

Thanks, Dennis. I wish more people in my age group weren't so contrary about using computers. Not surprisingly I agree that we have many stories to tell that will never be told. So many people sitting around playing Bingo and the like in Senior Centers across the land when they are chock full of stories of things as they lived them. Or - people whose minds are sound who are living in Nursing Homes because of some physical disability whose memories are never "mined." Sad.

Thanks, Dennis. I wish more people in my age group weren't so contrary about using computers. Not surprisingly I agree that we have many stories to tell that will never be told. So many people sitting around playing Bingo and the like in Senior Centers across the land when they are chock full of stories of things as they lived them. Or - people whose minds are sound who are living in Nursing Homes because of some physical disability whose memories are never "mined." Sad.
Tom Cormier (website) on Tuesday, 18 October 2011 20:31

Don, what a treasure to find. Knowing how deeply you feel for you mother and brother I can almost see your face when you opened that book and saw the letter. I'm particularly struck by the quality of the photo and what it represents. The country and the real people as it was. And that photo of you is priceless!

Don, what a treasure to find. Knowing how deeply you feel for you mother and brother I can almost see your face when you opened that book and saw the letter. I'm particularly struck by the quality of the photo and what it represents. The country and the real people as it was. And that photo of you is priceless!
Millard Don Carriker (website) on Tuesday, 18 October 2011 21:02

Yes, when I found that letter it was almost like my Mother had suddenly stepped into my life again.It's remarkable that the picture was taken in the late `40's with some kind of old-fashioned "box" or "Brownie" camera. No fancy settings - just as it came from the factory. AMERICAN workmanship.

Yes, when I found that letter it was almost like my Mother had suddenly stepped into my life again.It's remarkable that the picture was taken in the late `40's with some kind of old-fashioned "box" or "Brownie" camera. No fancy settings - just as it came from the factory. AMERICAN workmanship.
Tom Cormier (website) on Wednesday, 19 October 2011 02:20

It's such a good photo it could've been one of those classics that show up on Sunday Morning TV. Someone took a great picture. Do you know who took it?

It's such a good photo it could've been one of those classics that show up on Sunday Morning TV. Someone took a great picture. Do you know who took it?
Millard Don Carriker (website) on Wednesday, 19 October 2011 04:27

I don't actually know but I imagine it was my brother Gene. He was on this little jaunt with us.

I don't actually know but I imagine it was my brother Gene. He was on this little jaunt with us.
Golden V. Adams Jr. (website) on Friday, 21 October 2011 20:18

Don, I really appreciate the way you include so much of your "feelings" in your stories. I can "see" in my minds eye how your brother stood to take the photo of you and your family with a little Koday "Brownie". The language of the note oozes with personality as to the language used by your mother. This is just amazing! Thanks for sharing.

Don, I really appreciate the way you include so much of your "feelings" in your stories. I can "see" in my minds eye how your brother stood to take the photo of you and your family with a little Koday "Brownie". The language of the note oozes with personality as to the language used by your mother. This is just amazing! Thanks for sharing.
Millard Don Carriker (website) on Friday, 21 October 2011 22:20

What a nice compliment Golden. My Mother truly was an amazing, complex lady. As the little nursery rhyme says," When she was good she was very, very good and when she was bad she was horrid." Had she been privileged to acquire a fitting education she would've been a writer or a poet.

What a nice compliment Golden. My Mother truly was an amazing, complex lady. As the little nursery rhyme says," When she was good she was very, very good and when she was bad she was horrid." Had she been privileged to acquire a fitting education she would've been a writer or a poet.
Ellen Fernandez-Sacco (website) on Thursday, 04 October 2012 19:27

Don, enjoyed reading your story-- it really brings a sense of your mother's personality and what life was like for her growing up in Arkansas. That 1947 trip must have been so bittersweet, to find places that exist only in the memories of the elders standing on that rock ledge. Thanks for sharing!

Don, enjoyed reading your story-- it really brings a sense of your mother's personality and what life was like for her growing up in Arkansas. That 1947 trip must have been so bittersweet, to find places that exist only in the memories of the elders standing on that rock ledge. Thanks for sharing!
Millard Don Carriker (website) on Thursday, 04 October 2012 20:46

My genuine pleasure Ellen. I am so proud of my family. Each generation did a little "better" than the previous one. We are living proof that in America, anyone can better themselves without any governmental assistance.

My genuine pleasure Ellen. I am so proud of my family. Each generation did a little "better" than the previous one. We are living proof that in America, anyone can better themselves without any governmental assistance.